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Needless to say, those Money Orders or checks are no good, and not even worth the paper they're printed on.
If you cash them or deposit them into your account, Money Orders or checks will come back after few weeks as fraudulent and you will be responsible for paying back the money to the bank and sometimes even charged for passing counterfeit instrument.
More often than not, a man’s decision is affected by what his immediate world expects.
In such cases, it is best to make him understand and keep focus on the important things in his life.
Never re-ship anything for strangers, especially to Africa.
There is a reason why online merchants usually don't ship there.
Women are usually nurses, models, charity or UNICEF workers or antique dealers.
After they establish some lovely correspondence with you, fall in love and maybe even send a couple of cheap presents, they will either: a) be almost on their way to meet you, but something will happen to them: they will get robbed, beaten, get into the hospital, or other misfortune will happen and of course you will be their only contact to ask for financial help, or: b) tell you that their employer pays them with Money Orders or checks, and they can't cash them in Nigeria.
Usually they say to keep some money for your trouble.There are also military scams (for God Sake, there are NO American Generals browsing dating sites and NO military man will EVER ask you for money.Then there is a recovery scam - a scammer recontacting you pretending to be FBI, EFCC or any other authority, telling he can help you recover your money... And finaly there is a "stuck parcel" scam, when they supposedly sent you goods/gifts, but they got stuck somewhere on the way (for example, on the customs) and you have to pay to "customs" or some bogus shipping company to get them.In such cases, endeavour to build him up with support and great advice while demanding for only what he can comfortably afford.A truly important factor in every home, religion influences the decisions he makes and this includes relationships.